You Are Meant for More.
You feel it. You’ve always felt it.
✔ You built the career.
✔ You held it all together—even as you quietly fell apart.
✔ You played the part.
And yet… somewhere along the way, you lost yourself.
Not all at once. It was a slow drift.
A compromise here… An expectation there... Until one day, you wake up and realize… This life isn’t mine.
I know , because I lived it.
My Road Not Taken…
I was supposed to be an investment banker.
It was "the right move"—according to my parents, mentors, and the world around me.
Six weeks into my first accounting class, my soul said, “I’m here to do something with my life, and this isn’t it.”
So I jumped and transferred to the college I actually wanted to attend.
That was the first time I truly listened to myself. (But not the last…)
Fast-forward through social work, architecture, ecological design—years "doing the right thing"—and the same whisper kept following me:
“This isn’t it. Keep looking.”
Then, at 40, my mother died. And the wheels came off my life.
Grief stripped me bare. And for the first time, I saw the truth:
I’d spent my life torn between privilege and pain, duty and destiny—never truly choosing myself.
Success Outside. Trauma Inside.
Like many of my clients, my story has privilege and pain.
✔ Molested by my grandfather as an infant and young boy.
✔ Shipped off to boarding school to be bullied relentlessly.
✔ My WWII vet father had a terrifying temper, while my mother battled alcohol, anxiety, and depression—a legacy of her chaotic childhood.
I learned early: be smart, be useful, be invisible.
Therapy helped me face my legacy. (So much so I became a psychotherapist myself.)
But insight alone wasn’t enough.
It took shamanism—humanity’s oldest form of healing and wisdom-seeking—to show me the way back to my own power.
To move beyond my mind. To change the unseen forces shaping my life. To reclaim what I didn’t even know was lost.
I stopped understanding my wounds and actually healed them. To stop denying myself and start trusting my soul.
Since 2011, I’ve worked with nearly 200 high-level leaders—CEOs, lawyers, bankers, execs—guiding them to soul-deep power and purpose.
If you’re still reading, you already know.
You’ve done everything “right”, built the life you were supposed to. And yet… your soul is saying.
There’s more
More authenticity. More purpose. More you.
Let’s find it.
Come as you are, leave as who you were meant to be.
So, are you in or out?
Be light-hearted,
Andrew 🦋
P.S. It took me almost 50 years to claim my power. If this resonates, I might be the shortcut to yours. Let’s talk and see if I can help you.
Why Work With Me?
(Or, Can I Really Trust a Man With My Power?)
Women should question men who say they’re guides.
✔ Too many take power instead of helping you reclaim it.
✔ Too many want control, not transformation.
✔ Too many women have trusted the wrong men—only to pay the price.
If you ask, Why trust a man with my power?—you’re asking the right question.
Because power is the real issue here.
The way it’s been used against you.
The way you’ve been taught to fear your own.
The way it has shaped every hesitation, silence, or moment you made yourself small to be safe.
I know this pattern because I’ve lived both sides of it…
I have been abused by power. And I have abused power.
In this life, I was harmed—an infant and child betrayed by those close to me.
And in lifetimes before this? I did the harming.
I led. Ruled. Wielded immense power—without care, wisdom, or restraint.
And I learned the hard way: power must be used with integrity.
Or it will destroy you—in this life or the next…
Power is not good or bad. It is a force.
That’s why you’re here.
You know you’re here to do better.
You feel it. The power waiting for you. The fear of stepping into it
That’s where I come in.
Not to take your power. Not to direct it.
But to help you own your power. And use it well…
More Than Just This Work
Transformation is just the beginning. Life is here to be lived.
Things I love:
✔ Cooking and sharing food—because it nourishes and connects.
✔ Travel—because life is an adventure.
✔ Art and design—because beauty is a kind of healing.
✔ Helping child, dog, and nature charities—because the world needs more care.
And that play, creativity, and joy are just as sacred as purpose and power.
Because what’s the point of reclaiming your life if you don’t fully live it?
This Isn’t About Trusting Me. It’s About Trusting You.
✔ Trust your instincts.
✔ Trust how your body responds to these words.
✔ Trust the knowing inside you.
You weren’t meant to live in hesitation.
You weren’t meant to be shaped by others.
You were meant to be a force in this world.
And if you’re ready to claim that—I’ll meet you on the path.
👉 [Step Into Your True Path Now]